There are of course many species which lay eggs in the bodies of another species and also many species where either the male is eaten after mating or the male dies soon thereafter. So it seems possible that a species might exist where the female lays fertilized eggs in the body of the male with whom she mated or even a different male. I could see however the problem being that there is a significant time gap between mating and the eggs being ready to be laid, so perhaps there are no cases of the former but perhaps there are cases of the latter?
Note: Looking for a form of egg-laying that is destructive to the "host" -- where the developing larvae eat the host, like in the cross-species case.