I was recently studying gametogenesis (I'm a medical student), and I was thinking about meiosis and fertilization. So on the surface it sounds simple, 23 s-chromosomes from the father and 23 from the mother, and together we have 46 chromosomes and 23 "homologous pairs" of autosomes. I already knew beforehand that each chromosome has 2 copies, but today was the first time that I asked "but why are they similar"? The father and mother should be genetically non-identical, but somehow the maternal and paternal copies of chromosome 1 for example are similar actually, enough to warrant them being called homologs of each other. So why is that? I have some sneaking suspicion it involves evolutionary genetics, but I might be wrong.
Any response is appreciated!